Contrary to popular belief, most people take part in girls live cam sessions with mutual satisfaction in mind. It’s comparatively rare for men (or women) to hook up with cam girls online and to treat the whole thing like a one-way street.
After all, it’s very difficult (if not impossible) to enjoy any kind of sexual encounter if you’re not 100% convinced your partner is enjoying it just as much as you are.
This is where saying all the right things to a cam girl can make all the difference. If you are genuinely serious about ensuring she gets as much pleasure from the experience as you do, it’s in your hands to do just that.
All of which often begins and ends by knowing what to say and when to say it. Sex isn’t supposed to be a silent activity and can quickly become uncomfortable when communication breaks down.
This applies just as much to virtual sex as it does to real-world sex. If not more so, given how virtual sex excludes physical contact from the equation.
What Can You Say During Virtual Sex?
All tips and pointers regarding what to say during virtual sex also apply to phone sex, video sex with a long-distance partner, etc. Knowing what to say and when to say it can transform what would otherwise be a fairly moribund encounter into something truly unforgettable.
Of course, it’s natural to feel a little bit wood and uneasy at first if talking during sex is not something you’re used to. The good news is that you will soon get the hang of it, and you’ll know exactly what to do to up your virtual sec game in a (very) big way.
If you are looking for a few pointers on what you can say to get the best possible response from a cam girl, any of the following could be a good place to start:
How You Are Feeling
First up, there is nothing more intimate than discussing your feelings with complete honesty and openness. If you’re feeling incredibly nervous and vulnerable, let her know. If you’re so incredibly horny you feel like you’re going to blow your beans in five seconds flat, don’t keep it a secret. If you’re conscious that you have absolutely no idea what you’re doing, be honest about it. Honesty and openness hold the key to satisfying sex and give girls the satisfaction of knowing you feel you can be yourself with them.
Ask How They Feel
Of equal importance is asking your cam girl how they feel. You don’t want the whole session to feel like some interrogation. The task in plenty of questions as the action plays out will always work in your favor. For example, you could ask them what their favorite position is and what turns them on most. Ask them what they would like you to do and what you can do to make them feel good. Simply demonstrating an interest in their pleasure and enjoyment can be enough to take any virtual sex session to the next level. Long story short – remember that it is not all about you.
With all types of sex – virtual or otherwise – those involved need to know they’re doing things right. The longer spells of silence there are, the more you wonder whether they’re actually getting anything out of the experience. By contrast, tell them how good they’re making you feel, and it’s an entirely different story. Let them know what feels good, tell them they’re driving you crazy, and make them feel like they’re doing things for you that nobody else has ever done before. Build their confidence, and it will all pay off in your favor.
Last up, one of the worst things you can do during virtual sex (or any kind of sex in general) is to try to be someone you’re not. Some cam girls respond positively to filthy talk, while others are far more conservative. Either way, spouting all foul-mouthed statements simply because you think it’s what they want isn’t a good idea. If dirty talk isn’t something that comes to you naturally, don’t feel you have to start talking like a porn star. You’ll just end up feeling ridiculous, it’ll be obvious it’s not really you, and the whole thing will soon become awkward.